Frequently Asked Questions

Although I am a switch in my personal life and you may have seen me be spanked on camera, I do not over professional spankee services. Submission is a very personal thing for me, and requires a genuine emotional connection: it's not something I can turn on like a tap. I love being in the giving role and creating bespoke domination experiences for playmates, and in a professional session this is the role in which I thrive, and where you'll receive the best of me.

There is no need for a phone call or in-person meet  before booking our first appointment - I find email correspondence to be perfectly sufficient to give me the information I need for a successful session. However, I do offer virtual sessions on text, phone or voice chat if you'd like to do that before (or instead of) meeting in person. If this is of interest, just fill out my enquiry form and we'll take it from there.

I'm perfectly happy working within your pain and marking limits. If you need to be healed up within a short time frame, that still gives us plenty of scope to play with hand spanking and leather implements. I will be able to assess how far we can go once I see how your skin reacts to impact, but I am adept at long warm-ups that reduce marking, and am very happy to focus on the anticipation and psychological aspects of the scene and keep the physical side of it within limits.

Some of my all-time favourite sessions have been with couples. I'd be delighted to see you and your partner to support you with learning new skills, exploring different dynamics, and helping you get unstuck - or simply as a special treat to help you celebrate your delight in being together. To ensure full consent I require upfront communication with all parties beforehand, so I'll need the email addresses of both of you so I can connect with you together and individually to make sure we're all on the same page.

My rate is £350/hour for new clients, and will be going up in March 2027. 

Sometimes the most exciting thing is to allow the erotic energy to arise in our minds and in the energetic connection between us, and to allow it to simmer rather than seeking release, so that you leave charged up with erotic energy. At other times, explicit sexual touch may be part of the experience I create for you. This is at my discretion: please see the Sessions page for more information. I do not ever offer sessions which include oral sex, or any activities where I receive touch to my breasts or genitals - so don't ask.

Your deposit is non-refundable and covers the cost of venue booking and my time making the arrangements for our session. If you give me more than 1 week's notice, you may be able to put your deposit towards another session date within the next month, but this is dependent on venue availability and may not be possible. If you cancel with less than 24 hours’ notice, or if you do not show up to your booked appointment, you will be liable for the full cost of the booking. 

I will only cancel our appointment in case of an emergency. If this happens I will give you as much notice as possible, and either return your deposit in full or put it towards the cost of a rescheduled session as you prefer.

I generally recommend a two hour session. This makes the most of your travel time, and also gives us time to chat and get to know each other over a cup of tea before we play, and then enjoy our session without feeling rushed. I find that spanking and BDSM are so psychological and emotional that taking this time to connect and find out what makes each other tick is essential for a truly fulfilling scene.

It's totally normal to be unsure what you want to do, especially if you're new. We can discuss the options beforehand and keep things flexible with plenty of communication on the day. I'm happy to ask questions to help you explore your interests, and to make suggestions if desired. If you aren't sure yet what you would prefer, we can try a few different things, and find out together where your tastes lie.

I don't have a "one size fits all" approach, and will tailor the session to your unique needs, so you don't have to worry about me going too hard (or not hard enough!). I love the challenge of getting to know a new spankee, and aim to craft a unique scene that will push you ever so slightly out of your comfort zone without going too far, and leave you feeling satisfied.

It's my pleasure to see clients of all body types, ages, genders, ethnicities, and sexualities. As a queer person myself, I love meeting new LGBTQ play partners. As long as you are over 18, nobody is too old to enjoy a spanking! If you're worried about your weight, disabilities, or chronic pain, let me reassure you: I'm very comfortable accommodating a diversity of different shapes and sizes, and of adjusting our play to your body's unique needs. 

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I believe in fully informed, enthusiastic consent, and am very comfortable with safewords. I'm familiar with the traffic light system, or you can give me another word if you prefer. I will always respect safewords and will pause or stop the scene any time you ask, for any reason. I support everyone's right to communicate in the way they feel most comfortable. Some people dislike using safewords, and we can still play safely and responsibly without them. I am adept at reading your body language and muscle tension to discern whether you are within your limits, and if I am unsure, I will check in. The first time we play, I might ask you what areas on your bottom you like to be spanked, whether you prefer thud or sting, and how deep you want to go. During a spanking I might ask you to rate the intensity from 1-10. I am a great fan of direct communication!

First you need to fill out the enquiry form. I will reply to you, and after we both have all the information we need to decide to go ahead, we will find a suitable date and time. At this point I will ask a deposit of £100 to secure your appointment. This is best paid by online bank transfer from a UK bank account; I can also accept Wise for international transfers. Once the deposit is paid, you are in my diary and our session is confirmed. I'll send over the venue information including directions and address. The remaining balance can be paid by bank transfer in advance, or in cash on the day as you prefer.